Midlife Fat Loss Mistakes: 9 Tips for Avoiding the Most Common Midlife Fat Loss Mistake!

Pay attention to the mistakes of others when it comes to midlife fat loss. There isn’t enough time in life to make them all yourself.

In a previous blog post about midlife fat loss, I shared what happened when my client experienced too much of a good thing too soon. I have a related personal experience that I’d like to share so that other midlife women can learn from my mistakes.

Like many women in midlife, the fitness path I have taken has gradually morphed.

It began innocently with postnatal fitness goals of restoring my body to its prenatal state. Gradually it morphed into a body obsession. Over the last few years, it’s back to a more health-focused anti-perfect approach, including wine chocolate and cheese. Over the years I have shared bits and pieces of this story. The lessons I learned that can very likely help you avoid some costly mistakes.

There is a false assumption in the female fitness world, and I was part of it.

In spite of good intentions, many of us have assumed that being body conscious is the same as being health conscious. These are not interchangeable.

This is important to understand because it is possible to go down the body-conscious road in a way that is not in alignment with optimal health.

Body-conscious goals can inadvertently become unhealthy.

A health-conscious journey always prioritizes health and relies in large part on the feedback our body provides us. Whereas a body-conscious path may become more like being a slave to a certain look regardless of biofeedback from our body.

A particular look, say one popularized in the media, may or may not be healthy for the person who owns it.

And it may or may not be healthy for those that try to copy it.

We cannot in the best interest of our health, mold our body to look like someone else’s. Doing so can be costly to our health both physically and psychologically. It can also lead to a lack of self-respect.

When I was very lean my shoulders were remarkably shaped, and veins popped out over my biceps and abs. At the time I thought those were signs of health and aesthetics. But those things came at a cost. I was chronically exhausted. Post workout soreness was present seven days a week, and I was frequently cranky. Every bite of food required a mathematical calculation.

I was not fun to be around, and my family suffered the consequences. I had guilt and feelings of failure if my workouts were less than 60 minutes and (90 on leg days)

Eventually, I began to dread working out and eating well.

I knew I wasn’t doing my body or my self confidence any favors, but my self worth and confidence was dependent on compliments from others. Shallow, I know.

After my husband remarked that he missed the old fun me, I began to realize that I missed her too. I thought this over very carefully and knew it was time to revamp my lifestyle. It was time to let the perfection go, and let the image of the perfect trainer go. I was ready to go back to an approach that was effective and fun and with respect for health.

This change had to come from rewriting my internal beliefs around what healthy means. Sitting around like a sloth all the time is not healthy. duh, But extra long workouts in a calorie depletion with no rest days isn’t healthy either.

The following are tips for making sure your body conscious midlife fat loss journey is also health conscious:

1. Get your rest days.

Rest Days are important for Midlife Fat Loss

Our recovery requirements in our 40s and beyond are different than they were in our 30s. Plan them to fit your schedule and match your energy needs.  Some people respond well to a week of  3 days on, one rest day, two days on followed by a rest day. Others do better with 2 on, one off, or training every other day. Experiment with how well you recover. Don’t be afraid to add in an unplanned rest day if you are exhausted.  Being consistent does not mean ignoring signs of exhaustion.

2. Eat to fuel your body.

When Losing Weight in Midlife, You Must Eat to Fuel Your Body

Especially post workout. Learn how your body responds to eating around workout time and find what works for you. Don’t be afraid to experiment with carbs. They have always been fabulous sources of energy.

3. Allow yourself occasional treats sans-guilt.

Allow yourself the occasional treat when trying to lose weight in midlife

(Hello Hershey’s Kisses) Being overly strict, as part of an all or nothing plan will lead to eventual binge behavior. Especially if you are overtraining and restrictive.

4. Workouts should never scare you.

Train to maintain strength, and prevent natural muscle loss. Increase weight or reps or sets gradually. If you are afraid to lift a certain weight, then don’t. Give yourself permission to try a heavier weight, but also to stop if it feels wrong. If it goes up but feels risky, it’s probably too much for that day.

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5. Stop using physical characteristics as a measure of success.

In Midlife, Physical characteristics are not a measure of your health

Cut shoulders and tiny waists are nice, but training for them exclusively can lead to unhealthy choices in the long run. The low body fat needed to pull off this look long term can lead to an increased risk for bone fracture,  poor sleep quality,  other injuries and disharmony with your mate. (from being hangry all the time)

6. Celebrate your gym wins.

Celebrate your Midlife Fat Loss Gym Successes!

Like the feeling when your deadlifts go up easy, or those walking lunges that didn’t cause knee pain.

Joint Health and Posture are Particularly Important for Midlife Fat Loss

7. Give special attention to joint health and posture.

Pay attention to strengthening the supporting muscles and tissues. These are not the vanity muscles, but the ones underneath. Rotator cuff muscles and connective tissue around knees and hips need to be free of inflammation and pliable so that they can do their job.

8. Get advice from a trainer experienced in your age group.

Someone who has firsthand life experience with fitness and midlife fat loss.

9. Pay attention to your gut.

Pay attention to your gut for midlife fat loss success

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